Creating a safe haven – Part II
Creating a safe haven – Part II Internal peace In personality psychology, a term called locus of control refers to the two areas which either influence you, or, you influence. External, which are the things you have no control over like the weather and your environment, and internal which are the things you have the ability to change. The enthusiasm you have toward life, your attitude, the extent of which you love others and allow others to love you are within your control. When life happens, people could either lean more toward one or the other or be balanced with both giving them a clear view and understanding of what thoughts should predominantly occupy their mind to be at, or keep their peace. Those influenced by the external environment tend to be more high strung, complain a lot and feel victimized by their circumstances. They have a passive approach to life and aren’t proactive because, to them, their efforts wouldn’t change anything even if they tried. The key